Public Speaking & Communication Coaching

You're one speech away from the life you want.

The right knowledge, deliberate practice, and real storytelling. So you're ready when the moment that actually matters arrives.

Sound familiar?

Opportunities don't pass you by because you're not competent.

They pass you by because fear keeps you small. Or your speaking skills aren't strong enough yet to back you up.

The freezeYour mind goes blank, your body takes over, and you just want it to be over.
The flatlineYou get through it. But no energy, no story, no engagement. Nobody remembers a word.
The story"I'm just an introvert." "I was just born this way."
The rattleToo many words, no clear message.
How I Help

Three ways to get ready for the moment that matters.

Solid theory, immediately put into practice. Tailored to your situation, your story, your next step.

Group Training

Public Speaking Kung Fu

A full day, on-site. Five modules covering the inner game, vocal variety, body language, storytelling, and improvisation. Short bursts of theory, immediately put into practice with live exercises and real feedback. You end the day with an improvised speech.

1 day · On location · Max 12 people
1:1 Coaching

Personal Speech Coaching

Coaching built entirely around your specific needs. Whether you rattle when nervous, lose your structure, or just can't get your message to land, we fix it one thing at a time.

Tailored to your goal · Ongoing or single-issue
Speech Prep

Big-Moment Preparation

For the wedding speech, the investor pitch, the keynote. The moments you only get one shot at. We build the story, the structure, the delivery. So you walk in ready.

Weddings · Pitches · Presentations
My Method

No slides. No script. Just you, your story, and the room.

  • 1
    Lose the slide deckOne laptop failure and the whole presentation collapses with it. We build a message that doesn't depend on a screen.
  • 2
    Prepare the story, not the sentencesPreparation is key. But if you memorize every word you set yourself up for failure. Together we build the story, the structure, the message, leaving room to improvise and trust yourself.
  • 3
    Move toward the fearFear is a great servant but a terrible master. Where you feel the most fear is usually where your greatest opportunity lives. We walk toward it, on purpose, in a safe room.
  • 4
    Serve the audience, not yourselfThe spotlight isn't on you, it's on them. Pour your energy into connecting and serving the room, and the nerves fade into the background.

What you won't get here

  • Tips & tricks to "sound catchy"
  • A 100-ways-to-be-a-better-communicator list
  • Business-presentation polish
  • Help building "better slides"
  • Hours of theory with no practice
The Shift

Before and after the work.

Before

  • Assessing every room for risk before opening your mouth
  • Rehearsing a question in your head until the moment passes
  • Saying a lot but your message doesn't land
  • Worrying negatively, stuck in your head instead of your body
  • Telling yourself "I'm just an introvert" or "I was born this way"

After

  • Grounded, calm, taking your time to speak
  • Speaking up naturally, without the internal negotiation
  • Clear message, real impact, people remember what you said
  • Worrying positively, optimistic about your own ability
  • Others notice. You come across as natural, confident, and present
Testimonials

A few people who survived the training.

More confidence to speak spontaneously, better connection with the audience, and the insight that presenting isn't about perfection. It's about connection and authenticity.
Dick S. Founder & VP Growth · Awesome Compliance Tech
The training gave me the tools to tell my story with real impact.
Martijn van B. Product Manager · Schiphol
The exercises were very interesting, helpful, and most importantly, easy to keep practising on my own.
Yana B. Sports Marketing & Partnership Strategist · New Balance

"If you were born, you have a right to speak. Use it."

Lex, Public Speaking Kung Fu
Lex speaking at a wedding dinner
Lex, mid-speech.
Why Me

I know what it's like to walk back to your seat ashamed.

I was diagnosed with ADHD as a kid and could never quite regulate my emotions. Fight, flight, or freeze were very familiar to me. It was not only hard for me to express myself. In front of larger groups I'd mumble, stutter, forget what I wanted to say, go red, feel ashamed and sit back down disappointed in myself.

That followed me into adulthood, all the way to presenting at Ajax Arena and Pathé Tuschinski for work. My presentations were boring, with no story and no engagement.

Fed up, I joined a communication and leadership club called Toastmasters that was down to six members and nearly folding. Within 18 months I'd grown it to 24 and became president. Turns out I wasn't missing talent. I was missing the knowledge, the skill, and a few real wins to build on.

I'm here to tell you that this is a skill that anyone can learn. If an ADHD kid who used to freeze in front of his class can end up loving public speaking, so can you.

What I Believe

A few things I'd defend on stage.

The crowd wants you to succeed.
If you were born, you have a right to speak.
Anyone can become an inspiring speaker. It's a skill.
Fear and nerves are distractions. Focus on serving the room and they fade.
Emotional regulation is the ultimate skill.

Ready for your next important moment?

Let's talk about what's holding you back and what a 1:1 track, a speech, or a group training could look like for you.

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